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I'm Catherine from Philadelphia. Currently studying International Relations at university. I blog about Nick Grimshaw,Harry Styles, Feminism, Booty, and various other important things. She/Her.
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nosdrinker:

everyone who likes coconut water is lying

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benderliam:

when a bitch calls you thirsty like you don’t already know

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themethfairy:

I FOUND A SECRET SHARING WEBSITE AND THIS IS THE BEST ONE

themethfairy:

I FOUND A SECRET SHARING WEBSITE AND THIS IS THE BEST ONE

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befriendment:

boys= nasty and dress bad

me= somehow still likes boys and is disappointed in myself and thinks i should do better

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stylesplanet:

prayer circle that “just can’t let her go” will make an appearance on the 4th album

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eiznekem:

people who are reblogging leaked nudes:

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benwinstagram:

the you and i video should’ve just been a compilation of harry struggling on that pier mixed with the others living a normal, less dramatic life

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Limited Edition Single Cover

Limited Edition Single Cover

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fionahanlon:

Nick and Harry don’t need to prove their friendship to us. I know it’s disappointing that they aren’t spending time with each other when we think that maybe they can (WE THINK THAT MAYBE THEY CAN, TAKE NOTE), but I think it’s time someone said something about the way we act when they DON’T spend time together, because while it’s okay to be disappointed, we as a fandom seem to be developing a really UNHEALTHY habit, especially for an RPF fandom - where we think we are entitled to see Nick and Harry hang out, where we deserve pictures of them together, and the reactions when this doesn’t happen are getting really disrespectful? And maybe annoying?
People saying that Harry doesn’t deserve Nick because Harry chose to spend his time away from Nick is REALLY OFFENSIVE. It’s not a cute joke, but people are acting like it is. THIS IS A REAL FRIENDSHIP WITH REAL PEOPLE, and while it’s no harm done in the safety of your own blog, it doesn’t make it an okay thing to say - especially when we like to claim that the way we ship our OTP is respectful.
The posts going around claiming that Nick and Harry’s friendships are on the rocks is pretty much the same - we have this thing now, where we think Nick and Harry have to prove that they’re friends, when they don’t owe us anything. If Nick and Harry aren’t papped for a year, it’s still not our right to say “they’ve definitely fallen out”. If you want to create some angst, do it in the fictional capacity we are allowed to - create a fic prompt, label your post as head canon - but it’s so disrespectful to claim that their friendship is over, or on the verge of being over, or that they’re having troubles, and then try to actually prove it.
We’ve entered a stage where subconsciously, we think it’s our right to have pap pictures, that it’s our right to see Nick and Harry interacting, instead of being happy with what they’re willing to share with us. 
I think we need to really step back and look at how we’re conducting ourselves, because we’ve always wanted to be a respectful fandom, and we’ve always claimed ourselves to be, and I think its meant that when we do things like this we don’t want to acknowledge it, but we really really should? Because I don’t think some of the things I see as a reaction to Nick and Harry exercising their free will and hanging out with other people is okay.
NOTE: BEING DISAPPOINTED THAT NICK AND HARRY DIDN’T HANG OUT IS OKAY? I’M NOT SAYING THAT IT ISN’T. BUT I THINK WE’RE BEYOND DISAPPOINTED NOW AND ENTERING A STAGE OF SOMETHING ELSE. SOMETHING THAT IS MAYBE NOT GOOD